Hamadoun Touré at Columbia made clear he wants more involvement at ITU, but it's an international organization that moves slowly. The Internet Society can easily speed things up if they had the courage.
I wrote to the ISOC list
Allowing all ISOC members active in civil society to join the ISOC delegation to WCIT and other ITU events would quickly and effectively resolve the issue of limited civil society involvement. ITU members, including ISOC, have total discretion about who is on their delegation. Hamadoun Touré has actively encouraged members such as the U.S. to include in their delegation civil society. Speaking to Touré, I believe he sees a political advantage to expanding civil society.
The U.S. delegation currently numbers 115. The Nigerians are sending 70. ISOC only is sending 8. There's no reason not to expand the delegation. Only a limited number of civil society representatives will have the money and time. I'd bet we could include just about all of them and still have a modest sized delegation.
I suggest ISOC immediately put out word that "any civil society representative who has been personally active supporting the causes of the ISOC mission" is welcome to be included in the delegation. Current non-members can simply and instantly join. Those active in ISOC like Veni, Alejandro, and Joly would also be a strong addition.